What a Girl Wants / What I've Learned About the Ladies... Part III

Women want to feel that they are loved and found attractive-and they want to hear it often.

They want to believe that even if they lose their looks, or gain weight, or change in their old age, that their man will always love them just the same.

Women want to feel secure that when they get older -and god forbid feel less appealing than they did when were young-that their man won't leave them for a younger more appealing version.

This is a genuine and certainly understandable feminine fear. While I wouldn't ever forsee that being possible in my case, I would say that men have similar fears. That they will lose their hair, that they will get a beer gut, that they will no longer feel the love and admiration their wives once held for them,and that those quirks and unique qualities they hold and which their women find endearing will become tiresome later, that somehow they lose the love and respect of their women, and that their women will fly the coupe when times get tough.

So I say, we are in like boats and share similar insecurities. But, if you both remember to show your love like today were the last day, and you do it consistently over the years, I can't forsee that those changes would ever affect your spouse's love and attraction to you. In fact, ideally it should make you even more appreciative endeared and attracted to them.