Clarification.

The following was written by Ms. Bellcanto in response to the recent postings:

These questions you're asking, I had no idea you were so undecided and unsure. "Is there one person out there that is perfect for each of us--without having to work on it?" Seriously? I thought you were all about "working on" a relationship, fighting because it's beneficial, doing
whatever you needed to to make it work. Now you're looking for that one "perfect" someone who you won't have to work with? Wow, I had no idea."

D-Llama says...
I didn't say that. I'm merely being inquisitive; asking the question that is often asked but to which everyone has a different opinion. What do I believe? I believe there is a perfect person for each of us. Just one. But I don't believe in perfect relationships. They all take work, they all require patience, understanding, and yes, disagreements and survival. Being able to survive the waves and troubles in a relationship are what makes genuine love strong, and the relationship worth having. Being willing and committed to surviving the ups and downs are what eventually gets us to the the point that we can overcome obstacles and be happy in an imperfect relationship with that one perfect person.

See my previous post on this topic by >>clicking here.
Or...review the very first post on this blog by >>clicking here.

Both are insightful on this topic.